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“Better to Break a Bowl, Then to Break a Bone” – From Hindy Vivian G.

I talked to my Mom today and caught up with her on what has been going on and I see we all are dealings with challenges – whether physical, mental, spiritual, psychological, etc. No one is immune, even those who seem to “have everything,” but are really unhappy and empty inside because is all about their material success and they have nothing else in their lives – they have no meaning or purpose and waste their time & money on nonsense to fill up the void. They you wonder why people are depressed, taking pills, committing suicide, G-d forbid. How can it be?? There is no satisfaction because there is no value what they are doing, as it is momentary pleasure/enjoyment that is finite and limited with some sparkle, glitter and fireworks, but since it doesn’t last they have to continue to get their “fix,” so they do it by buying more things to make up for the lack and unless they break from this lifestyle it will be their downfall. Find a purpose to your life – seek out the real things that matter and you feel a fulfillment for your internal self/the soul. As we all go back to the earth in the end, while the soul moves on to its eternal life and want to have something to show for ourselves that we accomplished in this world.

So what does this have to do with the quote mentioned in the title, which by the way, is credit to my Mom. I mentioned that I took a bowl and put on the counter and found it was broken in half (glad it didn’t fall on the floor, shatter and have to deal with a real mess and longer clean up. I need to be thankful that it was just an object that broke and is easy to replace, if necessary, whereas, if it was a bone then would have to deal with going to a hospital, surgery, doctors, etc. It was a big blessing from G-d and a lesson to learn and accept what happened as a gift, regardless of that may seem to be negative/bad, it is actually for the best and have to say “thank you, G-d, this too, is for the best!” I realize The One Abo-ve is giving me another opportunity to change & do better and this is not just in the physical sense as when you improve yourself you feel like there is a reason to live and that also contributes to your overall health and longevity.

You are welcome to share your comments and tell me something that happened to you that are thankful for even though it seems outlandish and goes against the grain, to also appreciate the suffering & pain!

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20 Ideas for Creating a Happy Life

20 Ideas for Creating a Happy Life
Do not know the author of this, but liked it enough to share it!

1- Realize that happiness is a choice. You create happiness by thinking thoughts that create happiness in your own mind.
2- Be grateful for all that you can be grateful for. Each and every day you will have things to be grateful for.
3- Every happy and joyful moment that you’ve ever experienced is stored in your brain. Your brain is always with you. So you can relive your happiest and most joyful moments at any given time you choose. Choose to do so frequently.
4- The way you personally evaluate any given situation and occurrence is the key factor for your emotional reaction. Master the ability to view situations and occurrences in positive, growth-filled ways. Keep asking yourself, “What is good about this and how can I grow from this?”
5- Make meaningful goals. Take action. Be patient and persistent. Rejoice every step of the way towards those goals.
6- Grow from each challenge you face. The greater the challenge, the more you grow. Appreciate the opportunity.
7- Celebrate your personal character victories and you will have much to celebrate. Be resilient when you make a mistake. Resilience leads to many victories.
8- See the good in other people and treat them kindly. They will usually reciprocate. You will live a happier life whether or not they reciprocate.
9- This moment is the only moment that exists. Be joyful this moment. Learn from the past. Prepare for the future. And live joyfully in the present.
10- Appreciate being alive so intensely that all the trivial and minor things that don’t go the way you wish are irrelevant and inconsequential. The thought that reverberates in your mind will be, “I am joyful that I am alive right now.”
11- Smile and wave to mirrors. They like it and are guaranteed to reciprocate. This habit will ensure that you will always see a smiling face whenever you choose to look in a mirror.
12- Learn from every joyful person you see. Talk and walk the way a joyful person does and you too will be joyful.
13- Spend time with positive people. Being around an authentically happy person will make you happier. Be so happy yourself that your happiness is contagious.
14- See the humor in challenges and potential difficulties. Laugh even before you see the humor and the humor will come to you.
15- If needless negative thoughts come to your mind, just let them flow by as the water in a flowing river. Choose to flow in a positive mental direction.
16- Whenever you hear a telephone ring, say enthusiastically, “I am grateful I am alive and I am grateful I can hear.”
17- Create inner music in your mind and create positive inner self-talk.
18- Make a personalized positive recording for you to listen to. Write a list of statements that you would like to hear over and over again. Make the recording in your own voice. Play it frequently.
19- Take mental vacations whenever you wish. Visualize the most beautiful scenery possible. Close your eyes and see yourself being in your utopian spot. Allow yourself to release all stress and tension. Feel the happiness of knowing that this paradise is yours.
20- Bring happiness to as many people as you can.

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